Early on in my career, when I was still a substitute teacher, I came across a sight that bothered me. There were several students sitting in the front row of the class, and they were on their phones. What bothered me was not so much that they were on their phones, but that they absolutely did not make any type of contact with each other. I found out they were friends, and I walked by and told these students that life was going to pass them by, and they would not always be near each other like they were now. I told them to get off of their phones and to talk with each other face to face.
I saw that what I said made the students think, but I also noticed some of them were still inching back to their phones. So, I did something radical; I told them that if they put their phones away, I would not check to see if they were working. They put their phones away, and I saw the magic that comes when people interact face to face, the way they were made to interact. I monitored them closely, and to my surprise, they pulled out their work, started working, and continued speaking with each other.
Those students learned an important lesson that day. They learned a little bit more about what the value of life means. We only have certain people in our lives for so long a time, and we should value that time with them because one day we will not have that gift of being with those people.